Life is what you make of it.

Life is what you make of it.

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Life. Choices.

Life isn’t about keeping score. It’s not about how many people call you and it’s not about who you’ve dated, are dating, or haven’t dated at all. It isn’t about who you’ve kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. It’s not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it’s not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not. Life isn’t about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it’s not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn’t about that. But life is about who you love and who you hurt. It’s about how you feel about yourself. It’s about trust, happiness, and compassion. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It’s about what you say and what you mean. It’s about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else’s in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. These choices are what life’s about.

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Popularity.

What does that word mean nowadays? What makes a person popular? Is it his/her ability to think wisely and be able to make correct decisions without screwing up? Is it the person who's nice, kind and helpful? Or is it the person who takes like 932856495 pictures of him/herself in front of a mirror and posts it on facebook? Sadly it's option number 3.

The society now has come to a point where what you see on the outside is what it is in the inside. Backwards from what it is right? For instance, a girl who has too much make up on, wears very little amount of clothing on herself, takes a million pictures of herself and uploads it on the internet, goes to parties, has a hot body, straightened her hair, plucked her eyebrows, shaved her legs and loads more is considered as a popular girl. Now, a boy that takes pictures of his body on uploads them on the internet, has the look and the hot body, goes to tons of parties, get drunk at every party, has loadsa 'girl'friends, has tons of cash, own the coolest ride and way more is considered a popular guy. Neither one of them needs to have personality, brains and a heart which is basically what makes a human being.

What happens to the person that is nice and yet can still have an awesome personality and likes to keep it to him/herself? What happens to them? The truth of the matter is, most of the time, when you are to see the so called 'popular' ones and the ones with the personality together and in real life, you would prefer the least popular one. Why? PERSONALITY. Not looks or whatever that makes them 'cool' or whatever you people call it. 

People should stop judging and give everyone a chance and people SHOULD NOT THINK HIGHLY OF THEMSELVES. Just be who you are. Be what your momma gave you. We should love each other for what WE REALLY ARE not who we try to be. 

Okay its really late and i'm expecting a phone call now so i'll continue some other time. Never got a chance to read back my post so sorry for the mistakes. oh what am i talking no ones gonna read this. Stupid.

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